So I was having the typical Monday morning discussion with my friend about gaming, and we were wondering why we stopped playing certain games. The biggest factor for me was that the game was too stressful. I have become so worried about balance and fairness and making sure that there exists a chance to win...that there is no fun left. In the beginning, there was this blissful time of ignorance around a game where we just played it...and fun was had...and somewhere down the line...typically when taking that first step towards tournaments, that it all starts to go wrong.
But lately, I'm killing off games before I even get to the blissful ignorance part. Now I research games and poor over the rules and such, scrutinizing every aspect, and inevitably finding the flaws that justify my disdain.
A good example is 40K. I really love the lore of 40K. I've been involved in it since the Rogue Trader days. The models and lore will get me excited enough to start to collect and build a force...but eventually, the realization that it won't be able to take on all comers (at least to my ridiculous standards) then kills the enthusiasm that was once there.
So how do you wipe the slate clean? How do you attain that gaming zen where you just enjoy the game? I am a gamer, but I've gotten to this stage where I'm making the games not fun and that makes me a sad panda.