I'm most worried about my kids. That was the hardest thing was to tell them. They didn't take it well when we told them, but they seem to be dealing with it ok. I'm sure it will be difficult when I finally move out at the end of the month.
The irony is she and I are getting along better than we have in months. We are putting the kids first, and we will still be a team for them. There is so far no issues dividing up finances and things, as I'm the one who has to move (we currently live on the family farm, so it would be weird for her to move) I do get a freshish start, and I get to practice woodworking while I build myself some furniture.